EMDR Therapy for Deep Feelers & Thinkers in San Antonio
Big Inner Worlds & Long To-Do Lists
Ignite Your Inner Phoenix: Heal Trauma, Rewire Attachment Patterns & Ease Anxiety with EMDR
Yes-you really can. Even if it doesn’t feel like it yet.
You’re doing everything you can to keep it together.
But some days? It feels like your past has a grip on you that won’t let go.
You want peace, but your nervous system is always standing guard, scanning for the next threat-even when nothing is actually wrong. You crave rest, but your mind is always on.
You’re exhausted from holding it all together alone. But here’s what I want you to know: You don’t have to.
Here in San Antonio or curled up with a cozy blanket anywhere in Texas, you can get the healing and support you deserve - wherever you are. Your deepest pain won’t just be heard but held with warmth, expertise, and empowerment.
You’re wondering…
✥ Is my trauma even “bad enough” to work on?
✥ Why am I still struggling when I’ve already done so much work on myself?
Whether you’re trying to figure out if what you’ve been through “counts” as trauma (it does), or you’ve been carrying the weight of it for far too long, know this:
✥ Your pain is valid. ✥ Your healing matters.
Even if it feels like you “should know better” by now, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken. You’re human. And around here? I get deep feelers and thinkers because…I’m one, too.
Signs You Might Be Living with Unprocessed Trauma
※ You’ve told yourself other people have had it worse, so your pain doesn’t count.
※ You’ve minimized your own heartache.
※ You downplay your struggles because: You seem to be functioning well by all appearances, so does it really matter?
※ You wonder why healing hasn’t happened yet… and if it ever will.
※ You wonder why you can’t just move on already.
Here’s the truth: Your pain is real.
No hierarchy. No judgment. Just you, your heart, and your healing.
EMDR Therapy with me Is Different - Because...
✥ Every Story Matters: Every scar, every ache is honored here.
✥ Your Experience is Valid: You won’t be told your pain wasn’t “enough.”
✥ Healing Moves at Your Own Pace: No forcing, no rushing - just compassionate commitment.
How EMDR Works
➙ Imagine your mind is like an intricate tapestry but some threads have gotten tangled. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) helps gently smooth those knots, weaving your story back together - without retraumatizing you.
➙ Clear Out Old Stories: Without reliving every raw detail.
➙ Unfreeze the Past: So you can finally move forward.
➙ Catalyst for Change: Reactivating the resilient person you already are.
➙ Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR taps into your brain’s natural healing process - helping you break free from emotional looping once and for all.
Trauma Echoes Through Time - Even When You Don’t See It
Trauma isn’t always so obvious. But can look like this:
➙ Hypervigilance: On alert, always waiting for the other shoe to drop.
➙ Rumination: Your brain’s greatest hits are on a loop: I should’ve done more and Why didn’t I?
➙ Trust Feels Risky: Guarding your heart, but lonely at the same time.
➙ What-If Spirals: Scanning for threats replaying past moments.
➙ Emotional Numbness & Disconnection: Feeling half-present, half with the world.
➙ People Pleasing and Perfectionism: Constantly tuning in so no one gets upset or over-performing and over-functioning to try and get it “right.”
➙ Relationship Loops: Giving too much, explaining too much, retreating when it gets too close.
Even without realizing it, with every step you’re finding your footing again.

EMDR Helps You Emerge Stronger
This isn’t just about rising from the ashes of your past.
It’s about emerging stronger, more aligned with your true self, and ready to embrace the vibrant, confident person you’re meant to be.
What EMDR Can Do
EMDR helps your body and mind process trauma in ways talk therapy alone cannot:
↠ Deeper safety: The parts of you that have been on alert can finally rest.
↠ Core-shift in beliefs: That inner critic? It softens into compassion.
↠ Freedom from the past: No more reliving the wounds—just presence.
↠ Real transformation: Stronger emotion regulation, secure connection, genuine confidence.
Simple EMDR Process You Can Count On
↠ Guided Reprocessing: Using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tapping, or sounds) to help create new neural pathways without reliving trauma
↠ At Your Pace: Every step is yours to take - no rushing, no pressure.
↠ Steady Support: I stay with you as emotions surface, helping you ground, regulate, and process.
EMDR helps trauma stay in the past – where it belongs.
EMDR Therapy in San Antonio: A Space for Deep-Feelers and Thinkers
Designed for those dealing with:
❊ Attachment Wounds & Patterns
❊ Childhood trauma, complex trauma, & emotional neglect
❊ Anxiety & panic
Whether you’re a therapist, in-tune feeler thinker and feeler, or creative, you deserve to find refuge in your voice and strength.
Why Settle for Surface-Level Coping When You Can Thrive?
With EMDR, you won’t just be coping and functioning, you’re reweaving your inner tapestry so trauma no longer holds sway.
➵ Profound Healing: Through deep neural processing.
➵ Belief Shifts: From: “I’m not enough” to “I’m worthy as I am.”
➵ Freedom from the Past: No more reacting - just presence and peace.
A Morning You Can Imagine
Picture waking up feeling grounded. Your mind is calm. You feel ready - no longer weighed down by yesterday’s shadows. This is the freedom EMDR can offer.
FAQ: EMDR Therapy in San Antonio
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EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a trauma-focused therapy that helps your brain process and heal from distressing memories and experiences. Using guided eye movements or other bilateral stimulation, EMDR helps you reframe painful past events so they no longer control your present.
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EMDR activates your brain’s natural healing processes by engaging both sides of the brain while focusing on traumatic memories.
This helps “unstick” the emotional charge and allows your nervous system to process the experience more adaptively, reducing symptoms like anxiety, flashbacks, and intrusive thoughts.
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Before starting EMDR, we will make sure you feel grounded and establish a sense of safety. When ready, we’ll gently begin to approach traumatic memories using guided bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or tapping) while you hold the memory in mind.
The process helps shift how your brain stores that memory and reduces emotional pain.
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EMDR is effective for trauma, PTSD, anxiety, panic attacks, traumatic grief, phobias, and attachment wounds. It can also support healing from childhood neglect, sexual trauma, medical trauma, religious or spiritual trauma, and other overwhelming life events.
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EMDR can be helpful if you’ve been impacted by trauma, early attachment ruptures, or overwhelming experiences that keep replaying in your mind or body. It’s not about reliving the trauma but safely processing it to reduce distress. We’ll assess together if EMDR fits your needs and goals.
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EMDR works directly with your brain and nervous system to help you process stuck memories and painful self-beliefs at a deep, mind-body level. Many people find it helps them move through old wounds more efficiently than talk therapy alone.
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Studies show online therapy can be just as effective, especially for anxiety, trauma and attachment issues. I’ve also seen this to be true in my work with past clients. Many clients appreciate the convenience and comfort of healing from home.
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EMDR Therapy is helpful for many but not everyone. We can talk more about it on our consultation call, to see if EMDR is best or right for you.
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The number of sessions varies. Some people notice shifts after a few sessions, while others need more time to process complex or layered trauma. Healing is not linear, and we move at your pace.
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After sessions, some clients have strong emotions or vivid dreams. This is common in EMDR and shows your brain and body are processing the traumatic memories. We’ll talk about this before starting EMDR and throughout your time in EMDR Therapy.
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I’m based in San Antonio but also offer online therapy across Texas, ensuring no matter where you are in Texas, you can access healing.
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EMDR is designed to be a safe, contained process. While it can bring up strong thoughts, feelings and body sensations at times, you remain in control and can pause or slow down whenever needed. The goal is to reduce distress, not increase it.
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Absolutely! EMDR works well alongside other approaches like attachment-based therapy, clinical hypnosis, and somatic-based therapies, to support healing.
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No. Unlike some traditional talk therapies, EMDR does not require you to fully verbalize or narrate your trauma. You only need to tell me enough about it before we begin EMDR Therapy. In EMDR, you’ll hold the memory in mind briefly while the processing happens.
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